The Expression of Polite Words in Mandarin Chinese(Please, Thank You,Sorry & Excuse Me, Goodbye)

Politeness plays an important role in life communication. If you are polite, you are more likely to get respect and help from others. In Chinese, there are many words and phrases to express politeness. Here, we list the most frequently-used 28 polite expressions in daily conversations, including politeness, thanks, apologies and farewells.

Polite words

礼 貌 语 [lǐ mào yǔ]
Polite words
请 [qǐng]
Please
请进 [qǐng jìn]
Please come in.
这边请 [zhè biān qǐng]
This way, please.
请问 [qǐng wèn]
Excuse me, may I ask…?
你好 [nǐ hǎo]
Hello.

Example Dialogues

Dialogue 1
(You come to a restaurant and order a meal.)

 
Waitress:
Huān
yíng
guāng
lín
,
qǐng
jìn
!
Welcome, please come in.

(Later…)

men
yào
chī
diǎnr
点儿
shén
me
?
What would you like to eat?
 
Customer:
En
,
fān
qié
chǎo
dàn
,
suān
dòu
,
liǎng
wǎn
fàn
.
Uh, scrambled egg with tomato, sour and spicy shredded potato, and two bowls of rice.
 
Waitress:
Hái
yào
de
ma
Anything else?
 
Customer:
yào
le
,
gòu
le
,
xiè
xie
.
No, that's enough, thank you.

Dialogue 2 (In a company)

 
Staff:
Qǐng
wèn
,
nín
zhǎo
shéi
?
May I help you?
 
Client:
zhǎo
Wáng
jīng
,
I'd like to find manager Wang.
gēn
yuē
le
jīn
zǎo
shí
diǎn
jìan
miàn
.
I have an appointment with him at 10 o'clock this morning.
 
Staff:
Zhè
biān
qǐng
.
This way, please.

Dialogue 3(On the road)

 
A:
hǎo
qǐng
wèn
xià
Shì
Jiè
Zhī
Chuāng
zài
li
?
Excuse me, may I ask where is the Windows of the World?
 
B:
Xiàng
qián
zǒu
guò
ge
hóng
绿
dēng
jiù
dào
le
.
Go straight ahead until you past a traffic light.
 
A:
Xiè
xie
.
Thanks a lot.
 
B:
qi
.
My pleasure.

Thanks

感谢语 [gǎn xiè yǔ]
Thanks
十分感谢 [shí fēn gǎn xiè]
Thank you very much.
非常感谢 [fēi cháng gǎn xiè]
Thank you very much.

(a bit more formal)

谢谢 [xiè xie]
Thanks.
谢谢你 [xiè xie nǐ]
Thank you.
谢谢了 [xiè xie le]
Thank you.
多谢 [duō xiè]
 
Thanks a lot.

You can respond “Thanks” with:

不用谢 [bú yòng xiè]
 
Not at all.
不谢 [bú xiè]
 
Not at all.
不客气 [bú kè qi]
 
You're welcome.
别客气 [bié kè qi]
 
You're welcome.
不用客气 [bú yòng kè qi]
 
You're welcome.
没事儿 [méi shìr]
 
That's OK.

Example Sentences and Dialogues

Sentence 1

tóng
shì
men
duì
men
de
qíng
zhāo
dài
biǎo
shì
shí
fēn
gǎn
xiè
.
My colleagues and I are grateful to your hospitality.

Sentence 2

Fēi
cháng
gǎn
xiè
nín
de
zhī
chí
.
Thank you very much for your support.

Dialogue 1

 
A:
Xiè
xie
.
Thank you.
 
B:
yòng
xiè
.
Not at all.

Dialogue 2

 
A:
Xiè
xie
.
Thank you.
 
B:
qi
.
You're welcome.

Dialogue 3

 
A:
Xiè
xie
le
.
Thanks.
 
B:
Méi
shìr
事儿
.
That's OK.

Apologies

道 歉 语 [dào qiàn yǔ]
Apologies
对不起 [duì bu qǐ]
 
Sorry (for a mistake, you feel not good and regret)
抱歉 [bào qiàn]
 
Sorry (for a mistake, you feel not good and regret)
不好意思 [bù hǎo yì si]
 
Sorry (for something you feel embarrassed about); excuse me

You can respond “Sorry” with:

没关系 [méi guān xi]
 
It doesn't matter
没事儿 [méi shìr]
 
That's all right.

Example Dialogues

Dialogue 1

 
A:
duì
bu
.
Sorry.
 
B:
Méi
guān
xi
.
Don't worry about it.

Dialogue 2

 
A:
Bào
qiàn
.
I'm sorry.
 
B:
Méi
guān
xi
.
That's OK.

Dialogue 3

 
A:
hǎo
si
.
Excuse me.
 
B:
méi
shìr
事儿
.
It's all right.

Farewells

道 别 语 [dào bié yǔ]
Farewells
再见 [zài jiàn]
 
Goodbye
拜拜 [bái bái]
 
Bye-bye.
我先走了。 [wǒ xiān zǒu le.]
 
I'm off.
一会儿见。 [yí huìr jiàn.]
 
See you later.
回头见。 [huí tóu jiàn.]
 
See you around.
明天见。 [míng tiān jiàn.]
 
See you tomorrow.
下次见。 [xià cì jiàn.]
 
See you next time.

Example Dialogues

Dialogue 1

 
A:
Zài
jiàn
.
Goodbye.
 
B:
Zài
jiàn
.
Goodbye.

Dialogue 2

 
A:
Bái
bái
.
Bye-bye.
 
B:
Bái
bái
.
Bye-bye.

Dialogue 3

 
A:
xiān
zǒu
le
.
I'm off.
 
B:
Màn
zǒu
.
Take care.

Dialogue 4

 
A:
huìr
会儿
jiàn
.
See you later.
 
B:
huìr
会儿
jiàn
.
See you later.

Dialogue 5

 
A:
Huí
tóu
jiàn
.
See you around.
 
B:
Huí
tóu
jiàn
.
See you around.

Dialogue 6

 
A:
Míng
tiān
jiàn
.
See you tomorrow.
 
B:
Míng
tiān
jiàn
.
See you tomorrow.

Dialogue 7

 
A:
Xià
jiàn
.
See you next time.
 
B:
Xià
jiàn
.
See you next time.

Vocabulary

麻 烦 [má fan]
 
to put sb to trouble; to bother sb
打 扰 [dǎ rǎo]
 
to disturb; to bother; to interrupt; to trouble
欢 迎 [huān yíng]
 
to welcome
稍 等 [shāo děng]
 
wait a moment
请多指教 [qǐng duō zhǐ jiào]
 
I will resign myself to your guidance.
请见谅 [qǐng jiàn liàng]
 
I beg your understanding/pardon.
请慢用 [qǐng màn yòng]
 
Help yourself please.
慢点儿 [màn diǎnr]
 
Take care.
一路顺风 [yí lù shùn fēng]
 
I wish you a good journey!
hǎo
si
,
ràng
nín
jiǔ
děng
le
.
I'm sorry to have kept you waiting.
Qǐng
wèn
yǒu
shén
me
bāng
dào
nín
de
?
Is there anything I can do for you?
lái
bāng
.
Let me help you.