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您贵姓?What's your surname?
nín guì xìng?
我姓王。My surname is Wang.
wǒ xìng Wang.

Dialogue

A:
Nínguìxìng?

What is your surname?

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B:
xìngWáng,ne.

My surname is Wang, what about you?

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A:高兴认识
xìngChén,Hěngāoxìngrènshinín.

My surname is Chen. Nice to meet you.

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B:高兴认识
hěngāoxìngrènshinín.

I am also very happy to meet you.

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A:
Nínguìxìng?

What is your surname?

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B:
xìng,ne.

My surname is Li, what about you?

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A:先生
xìngLiú.xiānsheng,nínhǎo!

My surname is Liu. Hello, Mr. Li!

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B:女士
Liúnǚshì,hǎo!

Hello! Ms. Liu.

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A:
Nínguìxìng?

What is your surname?

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B:
xìngWáng.

My surname is Wang。

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Expansion

How to give yourself a real Chinese name?
˙The Formation of a Chinese Name
Different from English names, in a Chinese name, the surname comes first, and then is followed by the given name:
e.g.Surname + Given name
chénpíng
surnamegiven name
梦婷
wángmèng tíng
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As you see, the Chinese names can be two-characters or three-characters . It's not so common to have four-characters in a Chinese name whereas it's more common in the Japanese culture.
˙The Top 10 Common 10 Chinese Surnames are:
16
yáng
27
wángzhào
38
zhānghuáng
49
liúzhōu
510
chén
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˙The Connotation Carried by the Name
Each given name has carried the parent's hope for the child, or what kind of person they wish their child to become in the future. Besides the consideration of the meaning, they also take account into the characters' pronunciation to make the name sound good to listen.

Here let's see a few examples:

Female nameCharacterConnotationPossible Chinese female name
excellent and good王佳
jiāwáng jiā
quiet刘静
jìngliú jìng
beautiful李丽
lǐ lì
dream陈梦
mèngchén mèng
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Male nameCharacterConnotationPossible Chinese female name
dragon赵龙
lóngzhào lóng
strong张强
qiángzhāng qiáng
great周伟
wěizhōu wěi
morning杨晨
chényáng chén
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˙Now time to give yourself a real Chinese name!
Now you know how a Chinese name looks like. We suggest you to pick up the surname first, for example, if your own name begins with the letter L, you can choose 刘 (liú) as a surname. And for the given name, please think well what kind of image you want to convey to the person, or what kind of person you want to become. After you come up with the key words for your name, for example, you want your name sound like that you are a clever and smart person, then you can search the related Chinese meaning in the dictionary, for instance, clever can be 聪(cōng) or 睿 (ruì), but please seek advice from your native Chinese friends to double check before you finalise your name!

Grammar

Asking one's surname in a business context / to the elderly person
China is one of the countries in the world who attaches great importance to politeness. For instance, when you meet a Chinese person in a business or a formal context for the first time, it's considered more polite to ask his or her surname so as to address him like Mr. Zhang or Ms. Wang, rather than directly call him or her by their surnames.
Ask SurnameQuestion姓?
nínguìxìng
Youhonorablesurname?
Answer陈.
xìngchén
Iam surnamedChen.
Ask Full NameQuestion什么名字?
jiàoshén memíng zi?
Youare calledwhatname?
Answer陈平.
jiàochén píng.
Iam calledChen Ping.
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And you can NEVER SAY IT like this:
陈.
guìxìngchén
Ihonorablyam surnamedChen.
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Instead, you should say:
陈.
xìngchén
Iam surnamedChen.
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Besides, we can also ask 您 / 你姓什么?nín / nǐ xìng shén me (Literally you are surnamed what?) to ask one's surname if in a more casual context.
你 / 您什么?
nín / nǐxìngshén me?
Youare surnamedwhat?
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The degree of formality from low to high is as follows:
 Grammar
ExpressMr., Ms., and Miss in Chinese
Like in English, to address a Chinese person who you meet in a formal context, we can call him or her Mr. Ms. or Miss. In Chinese, we use the surname + Mr. / Ms. / Miss, the structure is as follows:Grammar
e.g.Surname + xiān sheng (先生 Mr. )
先生Mr. Chen
chénxiān sheng
e.g.Surname + nǚ shì (女士 Ms. )
女士Ms. Liu
liúnǚ shì
e.g.Surname + xiǎo jiě (小姐 Miss )
小姐Miss Zhang
zhāngxiǎo jiě
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